Mr. Paul May

Paul Eugene May, 72, passed away on December 3, 2024, at Stella Maris Hospice after an illness of several months. Paul was born in Baltimore on July 7, 1952. He was the oldest boy and fourth in line of 12 children. From an early age, Paul was interested in a variety of music, introducing his younger siblings to more sophisticated sounds than they were used to hearing on local radio. His brothers, Fran and Jim, gratefully acknowledge the significant influence Paul’s love of progressive rock had on them. Paul was also an avid sports fan, which shaped his siblings’ love of local sports. Fran cherishes memories of attending many Oriole games in the late 1960s and 1970s with a group of their siblings, including Paul. Paul was a devoted Oriole fan and often proudly wore Oriole hats and shirts. Paul’s brother, Bob, credits his love of Maryland basketball to Paul; his admired older brother introduced him to the team at a young age, and he has been a fan since. And Paul’s sister, Doris, remembers fondly how Paul loved to watch the major tennis tournaments on TV. Paul had an intellectual side as noted by his sisters, Mary and Pat, who recall with appreciation how well-read Paul was – keeping current with worldwide affairs and feeding his sense of curiosity. Paul's curiosity surely influenced his interest in exploring new places. His brother, Joe, being so close in age to Paul, treasures the memories of great times together at the beach on trips with Grandmom. Doris and Mary recall the wonderful, once-in-a-lifetime trip they took with Paul to visit his nephew, Jim, who was studying abroad in Italy. A household of 12 kids could get raucous! But Paul was known for his sense of humor. His sister, Joan, remembers Paul intentionally free-falling down the steps to get a laugh! And his brother, Bill, recalls with admiration Paul’s love for witty banter and how well he took teasing. For the last 20 summers, Fran and his wife Cheryl have hosted weekly Sunday family gatherings called $5 Sundays. The Sunday celebrations start at noon and Paul and Bill were always the first to arrive. Everyone in the family loves this wonderful tradition, and Paul had a great time with family and friends, especially his young nieces and nephews. Paul was a very kind and gentle person with a wry sense of humor and always a twinkle in his eyes. He was considerate and empathetic, expressing an interest in other’s needs over his own. His sister, Mag, a nurse, attests to his uncomplaining disposition, for she was often there for him during his illness. Paul is predeceased by his dear parents, Dr. Robert and Agnes Ripple May, and his sister, Louise May Dix. He is survived by his loving siblings, Pat May Melvin and husband, John; Maggie May Shulka and husband, Phil; Joe May and wife, Karen; Joan May; Fran May and wife, Cheryl; Bill May; Doris May Goodhues and husband, Mike; Mary May Maskell; Bobby May and wife, Becky; Jim May; and brother-in-law Steve Dix. He is also survived by 44 loving nieces and nephews. A celebration of life is to be held at Mitchell-Wiedefeld Funeral Home on SATURDAY, January 18, 2025, from 2-5 PM with a remembrance service beginning at 4 PM. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Paul’s name to The Helping Up Mission 1029 E. Baltimore St., Baltimore, MD 21202-4705, or this web address: https://give.helpingupmission.org

Mr. Paul May

July 7, 1952 - December 3, 2024